I’m a 22 year old guy.
A few months ago I met a girl in a nightclub, she somehow knew my name, I told her I didn’t know her, apparently we met a good year or 2 ago (I still don’t remember, you think I would have because she is absolutely beautiful and so cool).
Anyway, I met her in another club and this time I remembered her face but not her name, so she was angry at first be then we made it into a running joke, had a good time etc.
She then added me on facebook….she started conversations, commented a lot on my status’ (you should see some of the random crap we came out with) but I noticed she had a lot of male friends commenting on her status, pictures etc. So I assumed she just acted this way with everyone so I never tried to make a move or comment on anything on hers or even talk to her. (Plus I’m not exactly a looker, I thought why even try, ill just end up feeling like a ruddy idiot)
Anyway one time she was looking for tickets for a music festival last minute, that I was going to, because they were sold out, I said I might know someone so she gave me her phone number, I never took this is to mean anything for the reasons stated before. I never found any ticket a so I never phoned or texted her.
2 weeks after the music festival I met her at a club again, and what I thought was impossible happened, she kissed me! We made out for until the club closed, when we got outside I gave her my number, I even ask her on a date and she agreed (I could not believe this was happening haha)
As soon as she left she started texting me, she said how she liked me for a good while now, and of course i liked her so i said so. She said things like "I had a great night", "you put a smile on my face tonight", "i was looking for you at the festival" really positive stuff like that.
So what do i do? I actually believe her, I thought a guy like me had a chance with a girl her, how foolish I was…
This is the main point: If didn’t say all that unprovoked stuff about liking me, this would not have been a big deal.
The next day I woke up to find a text from her saying don’t sober up and change your mind about the date, i must have feel asleep during our text conversation (i had work at 9 and i was wrecked haha). Now because she said all that stuff about liking me, don’t forget etc, I thought maybe now I have a chance, text her, no reply, got drunk that night again, I texted her again (i hated myself for that), still no reply..
So the next day on FB I asked Oi whats up with the of ignoring me? She said she read the text but just forgot to reply, and she seemed a whole lot different than before, really distant, so I kept trying to start a conversation but nothing.
Now I feel that Im becoming the damn loser I didn’t want to be at the start, I don’t want to be one of these male friends constantly commenting on her status attempting to hit on her. haha
I don’t get it, why say all of that stuff about liking me then make a sudden U-Turn like that? I really DO NOT understand she could have just left it at the kiss, if she doesnt like me she doesnt like me (she was sober), plus I also hate myself now putting my guard down.
The reason I put in all the little details about meeting her (forgetting her name, the festival, not talking to her etc) is because I felt maybe she thought she wanted what she thought she couldn’t have, but now obviously that she knows I want something, she doesn’t want it anymore.
Because of that damn night I really like her now, what should I do?
I know Im extremely lame for even asking this question but thanks if you read all of that haha